The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness
Welcome curious minds to the ultimate destination to explore the integral connection between Kinky Sexual Wellness and your personal development. Dana Shergill is your host, Kinky Wellness Educator, and owner of The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness, who’s proving why Kinky Sexual Wellness deserves a rightful spot within the wellness conversation. From unconventional practices to thought-provoking conversations, Dana is breaking down barriers and redefining the boundaries of wellness and pleasure by uncovering the transformative impact Kinky Wellness can have on our lives. So, let’s strip away the shame and taboo, and navigate the intersection of pleasure, self-discovery, and personal growth together, and have an open conversation about how Kinky Sexual Wellness is key to your self-development.
Episodes
Monday Feb 27, 2023
Fresh on the Market: Setting Up Kat’s Hinge Profile + Satisfied Kat
Monday Feb 27, 2023
Monday Feb 27, 2023
Watch out! Hot Thing Alert! Kat's making true to her New Year's resolution and jumping back into the dating world.
Join us as we set up her dating profile and discuss ideal mates, perfect dates, and triggering traits.
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram!
The Partition Katrina Fairhurst
Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay Kinky!
Friday Feb 24, 2023
Netflix’s Orgasm Inc. Is This Another Case of Sexual Wellness Sabotage?
Friday Feb 24, 2023
Friday Feb 24, 2023
I watched the Netflix documentary Orgasm Inc: The Story of OneTaste, and it raised some concerns with Netflix's portrayal of Kinky Sexual Wellness.
The TLDR version is OneTaste was a business dedicated to the practice of orgasmic meditation and slow sex. After Bloomberg published an article in 2018, the FBI was called to investigate the business practices of OneTaste.
However, after being shown conflicting messages, I have to ask… is Sexual Wellness being sabotaged again?
Listen for yourself, and then decide.
To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life
If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM.
Stay Kinky!
Monday Feb 20, 2023
What Type of Intimacy Are You Missing?
Monday Feb 20, 2023
Monday Feb 20, 2023
Did you know that sexual intimacy isn't the only form of intimacy?
But wait… what is intimacy? In this episode, I talk about intimacy, the six different types, and seven signs you're afraid of it.
To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life
If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM.
Stay Kinky!
Links
The Share of Americans not Having Sex has Reached a Record High" by Christopher Ingraham
https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/
The Anatomy of Intimacy | Alisha Lockley | TEDxFSCJ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3yBxsDv8lM
7 Signs You Have A Fear of Intimacy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EtKgmVMsFQ
Thursday Feb 09, 2023
Tantra Island: The Search for Sexual Paradise + Satisfied Kat
Thursday Feb 09, 2023
Thursday Feb 09, 2023
A sexual paradise sounds like an absolute dream, but the question remains, can a sexual paradise actually exist?
On this episode, Kat and I discuss the Vice Documentary of Tantra Island: The Search for Sexual Paradise.
Listen to find out how working and exploring a sexual paradise comes with more grey areas than you might have thought and whether you would actually find us there.
Links
Vice Documentary: Tantra Island: The Search for Sexual Paradise
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UsWj15AFRs
Lingam Massage
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qektqbPAXrY
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram!
The Partition Katrina Fairhurst
Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay Kinky!
Monday Feb 06, 2023
Meet Your Shadow Self
Monday Feb 06, 2023
Monday Feb 06, 2023
Did you know we have personalities we don't want others to see? Yep!
Every self-fulling prophecy of "I would never…" or "that's not me…" regresses into a place known as our Shadow-Self.
In this episode, I will introduce 13 different shadow types and why it's essential to use your imagination to bring them to life.
#HappyListening
Stay Kinky!
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P.S.: If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink.
Thursday Feb 02, 2023
Will META Finally Free The Nipple? +Satisfied Kat
Thursday Feb 02, 2023
Thursday Feb 02, 2023
Will META finally free the nipple? If so, what does that mean for us?
In this episode, Kat and I discuss the pros and pitfalls of META's possible nipple policy change and why people should stop wearing bras overall.
Links + Reference Articles
Vice: Free the Nipple: Exploring Sexual Equality (from 3 years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4cjoSa3dxM
Should Everyone Have To Cover Their Nipples? | Middle Ground
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDszndfDpaE
https://www.insider.com/nipple-censorship-policy-instagram-meta-oversight-board-2023-1
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2023/jan/17/free-the-nipple-meta-facebook-instagram
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram!
The Partition Katrina Fairhurst
Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay Kinky!
Monday Jan 30, 2023
Is Artificial Intimacy Hijacking Our Emotional Lives?
Monday Jan 30, 2023
Monday Jan 30, 2023
Is Sex and AI a big deal?
Last episode Kat and I were supposed to talk about the BB3 Documentary on Sex and AI, but I found myself on a sex robot rabbit hole and totally blanked.
BUT now I’m all caught up and ready to give my perspective on the original documentary along with the information I found.
#HappyListening
Stay Kinky!
P.S: If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink.
Links
The Future of Sex? Sex Robots and Us from BBC Three.: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGTI2_O9v_Y&t=766s
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322030#Sexbot-use-unrelated-to-healthcare
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/325558553_I_Sex_Robot_The_health_implications_of_the_sex_robot_industry/link/5c0d46afa6fdcc494fe87a3d/download
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VUAf_e9Y6XA
5 things to know before you romance a robot (inverse.com)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sexual-self/202011/the-pros-and-cons-the-new-age-sex-robots
https://campaignagainstsexrobots.org
https://pub.towardsai.net/thirteen-surprising-facts-about-artificial-intimacy-d314cfb467c9
Thursday Jan 26, 2023
Sex + A.I.: Are Limits Being Crossed? + Satisfied Kat
Thursday Jan 26, 2023
Thursday Jan 26, 2023
The fact is A.I has entered the pleasure product market, but debates spark whether this is actually a good or a bad thing.
Listen to find out what each side has to say as Katrina and I discuss differing viewpoints.
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram!
The Partition Katrina Fairhurst
Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay Kinky!
P.S: If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink.
Monday Jan 23, 2023
#AIA What You Need To Know
Monday Jan 23, 2023
Monday Jan 23, 2023
#AIA stands for Aggression, Imagination, and Attention…and everyone needs a healthy outlet for them!
Listen now as I explain how BDSM and Kink might be able to help!
To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life
If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM.
Stay Kinky!
Resources:
https://opentextbc.ca/socialpsychology/chapter/defining-aggression/
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0956797613480507
https://opentextbc.ca/socialpsychology/chapter/the-biological-and-emotional-causes-of-aggression/
https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1219686110
Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T. B., Baker, M., Harris, T., & Stephenson, D. (2015). Loneliness and Social Isolation as Risk Factors for Mortality: A Meta-Analytic Review. Perspectives on Psychological Science, 10(2), 227–237. https://doi.org/10.1177/1745691614568352
eLife. "Females react differently than males to social isolation." ScienceDaily. ScienceDaily, 11 October 2016. .
Thursday Jan 19, 2023
Myth Busting: Kinky Wellness Edition + Satisfied Kat
Thursday Jan 19, 2023
Thursday Jan 19, 2023
Is it true that having longer sex will make it better? Is it true that people think bisexual people are more likely to cheat? Is it true that everyone in the U.K. actually like tea?
Well, that's what Katrina and I will be finding out in this week's Kinky wellness episode as we discuss Kinky Wellness myths.
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram!
The Partition Katrina Fairhurst
Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay Kinky!
P.S.: If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink.
Dana Schlosser
Host • Kinky Wellness Coach
Dana Schlosser, the host of The Partition podcast and sexual wellness coach, uncovers how BDSM and Kink can be utilized for mental, emotional, physical, spiritually, and sexual balance. Join her as she continues down the rabbit hole of kinky wellness with like-minded individuals worldwide and in her city of Toronto, Ontario.
As always, stay kinky!