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Monday Jan 01, 2024
Monday Jan 01, 2024
Welcome back Ancilla!
Ancilla of Ancillary Kink Support is back to teach us sexual communication practices for better sexual engagement!
In this episode, we jump right into it as we delve into…
Defining sexual communication
Goals of sexual communication
Differences between negotiation and communication as per their goal, scope, use
Major hurdles to sexual communication
Practises to help sexual communication
Debugging communication practices
+ more!
Ancilla is a writer, journalist, sex-and-kink educator, and author of novels, both erotic and otherwise. As a former sex worker, she has on-ground insight into human sexuality, and as a graduate of communications, she can apply that to create a structured methodology to apply to the sexual. She is pansexual, polyamorous, kinky, and constantly discussing how labels are reductive.
Social + Professional Links:
Website: https://ancillarykink.com/
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ancillal
Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/ancillal/membership
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/2913277
Instagram: @ancillarykinksupport
Book Links
Vignettes of Violence: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B1JJVBGC
Queerotica: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BNNV4RPN
A Penitent Season: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BZ31ZRHB
The CNC Sextbook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C77RSNN9
** Links are to Kindle and Amazon US for paperback. Please search by title for other countries for local vendors. **
Thursday Dec 28, 2023
Thursday Dec 28, 2023
#LastEpisodeof2023
In this episode, I let you in on how Kinky Wellness taught me to apologize better by outlining the 12 elements of a good apology, while also getting into what I did yesterday and the importance of customization.
Listen now to hear what's in store for next season and to hear my final 2023 message to you.
#HappyListening
Monday Dec 25, 2023
Monday Dec 25, 2023
In this episode, we are joined by certified sex educator and relationship coach Rae Szereszewski to discuss the realities and basics of anal play.
From prepping recommendations, what lube to use, ideal positions for entry, and different forms of play that don’t include penetration, this episode will give you everything you need to know when exploring Anal Play for the first time.
#HappyListening
Rae Szereszewski is a certified sex educator and relationship coach, and an Options for Sexual Health SHEC graduate. Rae wants to live in a world where having conversations around sex and sexuality is not considered inherently inappropriate, and aims to empower people to make authentic and informed choices.
Rae also has a Bachelor of Design in Fashion and Apparel Design from Toronto Metropolitan University, and uses it to make body-positive latex clothing. In addition to her experience as a latex designer, she spent eight years creating sex-positive events at a swingers and lifestyle club, and has worked in a variety of roles in event planning, community building, mentorship, and project coordination. She is currently running sexual education workshops, coaching clients, and making art.
Contact Information + Professional Links
ShareWithRae.com
www.instagram.com/wifebaerae
www.instagram.com/sharewithrae
www.etsy.ca/shop/SendNudesByRae
Wednesday Dec 20, 2023
Wednesday Dec 20, 2023
When was the last time you had a cathartic experience?
In general, "cathartic" refers to any experience, activity, or expression that allows you to release pent-up emotions, which in turn provides emotional relief.
In this episode, I’ll outline a few different ways you can gain cathartic experiences and how BDSM and Kink taught me the importance of it.
#HappyListening
Monday Dec 18, 2023
Monday Dec 18, 2023
On today’s episode, we’re exploring the multifaceted world of swinging with Dan and Lacy of Swing Nation!
Dan and Lacy are a non-monogamous married couple who host one of the highest-rated lifestyle podcasts on Apple called The Swing Nation Podcast.
Today, they will be sharing personal stories, practical tips, and expert insights on how to navigate the swing spectrum and what to know when entering a community where curiosity meets respect.
#HappyListening
Contact Information + Professional Links
theswingnation.net
theswingnation.info
https://www.instagram.com/theswingnation_podcast/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-swing-nation-a-sex-positive-swingers-podcast/id1582945782
Wednesday Dec 13, 2023
Wednesday Dec 13, 2023
When I say the word “Stress”, what comes to mind? A sinking feeling in your gut? Increased heart rate?
Well, in today’s episode, I’m outlining how not all stress is bad for you and that embracing Eustress is the secret key to life.
Listen now to understand what is Eustress, its benefits, and other types of stress that seem to go under the radar.
#HappyListening
Stay Kinky!
P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership Basics, Impact Basics, and Plan + Prep Basics.
Monday Dec 11, 2023
Monday Dec 11, 2023
Welcome to the driving forces behind The Sweet Spot Burlesque, Laurielle Noel and Ainsley Burrows!
Together, they lead an artistic revolution, redefining the boundaries of burlesque performance with a unique blend of sensuality, empowerment, and artistic expression, making them the perfect couple to discuss the importance of expression.
In this fun episode, we discuss…
How Ainsley turned what some considered a bad thing into the sex education we wish we had
What Sweet Spot Burlesque is all about
Why eroticism is for everyone
Importance of public displays of joy
+ so much more!
With Laurielle's strategic prowess and Ainsley's artistic and creative vision converging, they are propelling The Sweet Spot to the forefront of contemporary entertainment, where every show is a testament to the power of inclusivity, self-expression, and celebration of the human spirit. Their combined leadership ignites a vibrant movement that challenges norms and sparks conversations, leaving audiences inspired and empowered.
#HappyListening
Contact Information + Professional Links
Instagram & TikTok: @sweetspotnation
Website: https://www.sweetspotnation.com/
Stay Kinky!
✨The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness Upcoming Events✨
Kinky Wellness Online Summit: Redefine Your Sex Life in One Weekend!
February 22nd - 25th 2024, 10:00 am-6:00 pm est
Completely Online
Early bird tickets available till December 31st
Click Here: www.kinkywellnesssummit.com
P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics
Wednesday Dec 06, 2023
Wednesday Dec 06, 2023
The wait is over!
In today’s episode, I’m spilling all the details for the Kinky Wellness Summit happening in February 2024!
From the educators, doctors, and coaches that will be there to the classes, workshops, and seminars, and what this means for you and your health.
Listen now to get all the details on The Partitions' first-ever – Kinky Wellness Online Summit.
Get your ticket now: www.kinkywellnesssummit.com
#Happy Listening
Stay Kinky!
P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership Basics, Impact Basics, and Plan + Prep Basics.
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Welcome back Lala!
In this episode, Lala’s back to dive into the hidden powers of erotic writing and audio. Beyond foreplay, she sheds light on how these forms of eroticism offer benefits for anxiety, depression, and communication.
Tune in as Lala breaks down spice levels, shares steps for crafting your first erotic story, and navigates through 'ick' inducing words.
Ready for a sensual journey? Listen now
#HappyListening
Contact Information + Professional Links + Resources
Website: https://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lalasbedtimetales/
Book: https://www.amazon.ca/Sexual-Healing-Journey-Guide-Survivors/dp/0062130730
Stay Kinky
P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
Wednesday Nov 29, 2023
Wednesday Nov 29, 2023
Let’s get to the point. Today, I'm talking about…
✔️ The amazing experience that I had at the Men Who Take Baths Season 3 Party
✔️ Benefits of group therapy
✔️ Tips when attending an event like this for the first time
#HappyListening
X-Club Information
https://www.thexclub.net/event_description.php?event=9
Men Who Take Baths Event Links
Men Who Take Baths Insta: @menwhotakebaths
MWTB Website: https://menwhotakebaths.com/
Shrooms: @heyse.ro
Non-Alcoholic Refreshments: @getgruvi
The Bath Bomb: @kpurenaturals
Dream Peach Rolling Papers: @dreampeachcom
The Darling Mansion: @darlingmansion
Stay Kinky
P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
Dana Schlosser
Host • Kinky Wellness Coach
Dana Schlosser, the host of The Partition podcast and sexual wellness coach, uncovers how BDSM and Kink can be utilized for mental, emotional, physical, spiritually, and sexual balance. Join her as she continues down the rabbit hole of kinky wellness with like-minded individuals worldwide and in her city of Toronto, Ontario.
As always, stay kinky!